reasons for everything

You can’t always have the perfect life. Sometimes what happens to you is out of your control. You wonder to yourself why did this happen? But no madder how hard you try or how long you search you can rarely find a satisfying answer. “Everything happens for a reason” is a true statement to me because I know what happens to you is your fate. If what ever has happened in your life never really happened your life wouldn’t be the same. And what happens to you through out your life’s journey creates you, and makes you who you are.
Everyone was put on earth for a reason. Whether its to fall and love and make someone happy or if it’s to save people’s lives from a horrible murderer. What happens to you is your fate, your destiny, something you rarely have control over. You can’t change who god wants you to become. And you can’t change what the world wants you to do. Even if you’re homeless and think you deserve so much more its how things are supposed to be. Or if your mom dies in a car accident maybe its for the better because she could have been on her way to pick up your dad and they could have both died. Its how things are supposed to be. It’s life’s way of balancing out the nature between happy and unhappy. So when life is way to hard or just to good to be true. You really deserve whatever you get good or bad.
When things have happened in your past that make you take a step in a different direction those things were supposed to happen. Do you ever find yourself wondering why you have done what you have? But then you take a different approach at what you’re thinking and suddenly realize that if you had changed anything nothing would be the same. Your life could be far worse or possibly far better if only you would have made a different choice. But you already made that choice. The choice that when you were born god knew you would make and that’s how your life is. No what if I did this differently. It’s just how things are.
There are strong people and there are smart people. People who have been through pain and tragedy and people who have been through nothing but happiness. But something in there life has made them that way. They weren’t just born with a hard heart or an extremely smart brain. Every little puzzle piece adds to the big picture, who you are. And nothing can change who you are. You can change your looks, your voice, and your personality but you can never change who you truly are in side. The person you were born to be. The person the world expects you to be. And if you’ve never thought that you are who you are for a reason, you need to.
Life is the way it is because it is meant to be that way. There is no question about how things are. Don’t ever wish you said or did something differently. Don’t regret your past or try to plan out your future. Sine the day you came into the world things turn out how they are supposed. Your fate and destiny are too strong to change. There are so many reasons why your life is how it is. Everything is meant to happen for a reason.