Monday, April 25, 2005

Rishae

Do people fight because of a source of power, because they think it’s a way to solve things, or maybe just because they are afraid of losing an argument.

When people fight it makes them feel “all-powerful” or just…powerful but that’s only there idea. It makes them feel like they are the best, sometimes (depending on who you are of course), but usually it’s just because they feel it’s the only “real” way to solve things for example, arguments. It doesn’t solve anything. It only makes things worse.

They always think it solves things. When you fight it makes everything worse not better. It’s usually because of an argument, and after the fight it makes things worse, and makes arguments and anger bigger. You can get in big trouble and not just with someone you know with the police for example. Fighting gets you into bigger trouble then you are already in.

People don’t like losing arguments, it’s a fact of life no one really does, they can accept the fact they lost one but they don’t want to and (sometimes) when a person loses an argument it gets into a fight. It’s not really that they are afraid it’s that they don’t like to lose it, because (sometimes again) they think they are smarter then the person they are in an argument with. Then when they find out they “lost” they don’t like it (the fact that they lost). We can all relate to getting angry in an argument not everyone can relate to (in that argument) get so angry they lash out on said other person. Fighting isn’t right so stop we can all settle things by talking them out or trying to decide on a solution, think before you act.

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